I have this strong observation on what happens when you take things for granted. Some of the time that ends up affecting us the most. We end up being in a state where we are more vulnerable than anything that is out there.
In short you end up being in a wrong state when you take things for granted.
Let's say you take family and friends for granted and do actions that would make them feel like you are just being the wrong to them. And that would lead to the backstab. Like even if you are too much good for the family that would also affect you back.
Whenever things become too good to be true then people end up backstabbing you. And that is one of the things that people are going to be learning over a period of time. Because you are behaving in a way that gives another person advantage.
Now continuing from the previous point. When you take things for granted people feel like you are losing your grip over the reality and that is what they want. And they use that to manipulate you in the right state. So it is kind of like getting yourself trapped there.
In short people take advantage of you the more you take things for granted. And that is what makes or breaks the life in general. Some of the time being in a state of mind where the taking things for granted is something people have to be very careful about.
This is one of the lessons that learned late for me. Like I relied too much on family and expected them to not backstab me or manipulate me. Some of the time that is something really bad result that you would get. Learn to understand where things can go wrong when you take things for granted and avoid them.
