We grow from discomfort.

This is true, when you grow from discomfort, bad things don't hurt you anymore. But it feels bad because some people have it on platter and we have to climb the tree to enjoy the life. That's my only issue but as I get older I realize this is chess of randomness, there is literally zero assurance of anything good or bad and everything is lottery, at the most you can stack good things with actions but even then they can go instant.