Some people have means to live life large. Meanwhile some other people have to live life like they have to cover one life achievement at a time. And that does not happen easily. Each achievement kind of puts you into the washing machine of life and you end up destroying yourself by dreaming of life that you can live.
When you want to go ahead by a lot of margins you have to make strong decisions and make bigger choices in the life. And that does not happen for all so people tend to take the micro approach for the life in short.
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Why it happens to me only?
That would be the bad question to ask. Never why me. Instead ask yourself whatever the damage happened was minimal. Because things could be worst than what happened to you. Most of the people take into 40s to realize this truth. And they end up destroying their own self.
Why can't have X and Y and Z?
Look, I wanted to buy apple phone, macbook pro and even Mac studio. But in reality I can't afford anything over 800 USD. And that means I have to cut out on variety of things and things would be harder otherwise. So we should not count our life based on what we have and don't have. We live because we can not because something we own.
Should you suffer or should you plan the suffering?
Suffering is not optional. We all suffer and we are all going to die. And that means we have to plan what we can suffer and what we can build upon. When you are building the life ahead then each step has to be planned and then if suffering comes your approach would be calculated and also we have to then get the power to suffer the outcomes.
Does that mean we can't live to the fullest?
I think point would be living the life when the world outside would be dangerous with each passing minute. And that means we are kind of locked into the living for a moment and we can't change that So in order to live to the fullest we have to plan the life much better way if you consider the long term approach.
Sometimes the approach for the life is living it and not being forced to live a day at a time. Hustle, build, develop what you can so that you are not being forced to live life and forced to exit it out. But that lesson takes years to digest and even harder to live with.
