Weekend engagement 158: The annoying you

Hello friends, happy weekend to all, today I come to share my participation in this weekend's Weekend-Engagement, the theme I chose to develop was The annoying you since it seemed like a Interesting topic and I think I have a lot to write about on the subject, as always I hope you like my participation, without anything else to add I will start developing the post.

I am generally a quiet and distant person but when I get to know someone else I usually talk a lot, I am extremely talkative to be honest, I talk about any topic since I like to read a lot and I always have something to tell, once at the university I was talking with some friends about buying things online so I started talking about it saying how good shopping online had been for me and that I had never had any problems.

Well, it seems that a friend was quite annoyed by how much I talked about the subject because she turned around and told me to shut up and then she left upset, sometimes I think about that and I really can't understand what I did wrong, she was just talking about me experience buying online nothing more, that made me lock myself more and stop talking so much, I try to control myself so as not to overdo it, I am a person who usually takes comments very seriously and every time I speak I try to do it in the most calm way possible, this is not the first time they ask me to shut up and the truth usually hits my self-esteem a lot every time they do it.

Being with my family several times they have told me to shut up and that really affects me a lot to the point that I withdraw and am unable to speak again, that has made me the quiet one in the family, yes, it is strange, I am the chatterbox I'm quiet, nowadays I'm more into listening than talking and the truth doesn't bother me, I'm a good listener and thanks to that I've made many friends, I'm usually quiet but I have a lot of initiative, I'd like to talk a little more but I already have like one kind of trauma with that, I feel like my speaking makes people uncomfortable.

And well friends I hope you liked my participation, as always I really enjoyed writing it since as I mentioned before it is a subject that at least for me is very interesting, now without anything else to add I say goodbye, thanks for stopping by, see you in the next post, until next time.