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Week 52 has just ended and we had a lot of fun in that week. Week 52 there were also many interesting topics that made week 52 is very fun, but week 52 is over and we will continue to week 53. In week 53 we have also prepared several interesting contest topics from the first to the last edition. And this time I will start in the first edition with the topic about apologizing. Sometimes an apology is a difficult thing to do, but sometimes we had to do it. And here, I will explain a little bit about Apologize.
So let's check this out...
Humans are a place of a lot of mistakes, i think that was the right words when we describe the number of mistakes that humans might made, the mistake towards fellow humans, animals, or nature. Humans often make mistakes when interacting, and even we ourselves are not realize that we have made mistakes because we often do it and think it is normal. We often take small mistakes for granted, until the mistakes become big, sometimes we don't want to care as long as it doesn't harm us.
The mistakes we make to other people also sometimes hurt them without us realizing it, but there are some people who hide it and some people just stay away from us. And in this case that we need an "Apology", apology itself is our awareness and self-acknowledgment of the mistakes what we make, and apology is our first step to repair our mistakes what we have done.
Apology is the most difficult thing to do because while doing it we have to admit that we were totally wrong for what we did, in that case we have to turn down our ego for honest apology. Turn down the ego is not an easy thing to do, especially when we argue, when we feel right, but for those who can do it, they are really great. Giving up for good is indeed a very difficult thing, but we will be seen as people with beautifull hearts if we can do it.
I also have been in this position and it is very difficult to say sorry. But if I'm wrong, I have to do it no matter what the reason.
I'm actually a person who wants to admit that I'm wrong when I'm really wrong, but in particular situations I find it so difficult to apologize. It's not because I don't want to make amends and accept my mistakes, but giving handed and apologizing isn't easy, and it's more easier for me to admit I was wrong than to apologize.
However, only admitting we are wrong is not enough without apologizing for our mistakes. In my view, it is magnanimity that makes us willing to apologize and feel guilty. Selfishness is a hindrance in this regard, and therefore we must not be consumed by emotion and selfishness, and still have to admit when we are wrong.
Even though apologizing is a difficult thing, I need adapted it every time when i argue with someone because i don't want to get carried by my emotions and harm myself. There's nothing wrong with saying sorry regardless of who is wrong and right, by apologizing we just cut the problems out and everything will take place in peace. Actually those who can say an apology earlier are of course the ones who are no longer consumed with emotion, and can make peace with themselves. And those of people who are still ignited by emotions, make themself same as a kids who still cry when their candy is taken. Being consumed by emotions does not have a good impact on us and also on our relationships with others, it would be nice for us to refrain from emotions that control us.
So, apologizing is a wise thing to do when we argue, fight, or something like that and something makes us overcome by emotions. Someone that is controlled by emotions will do a bad things, and harm themself or those around them, therefore it is better for us to lower our emotions and try to apologize because in that way we have a honest heart and one step higher than our enemy. Apologize is a word what we have to say before we hurt someone because of emotion. If that happens it will be very detrimental to us. And before it's too late, better to say apologize for the first time wthout see who is wrong or right.