Hello everyone, how are you today ?, i hope everyone is good today and still exciting to following the contest until the end
Week 39 is very exciting and full of exciting titles to discuss. Many participants always follow the contest from the first edition to the last edition. The first and second editions were very successful, many participants showed their best posts from both editions, but the fun is just about to end and this time we will head to the last edition of this 39th week. In this final edition, we will discuss the things we have been accused of, of course I have also been in this position and this feels a little painful, of course. I'll tell you a little about my story when I was accused of something even though I didn't actually do the thing I was accused of.
Humans are creatures that never escape mistakes, both for themselves and mistakes made for others. This error also includes errors in accusing or judging other people that sometimes they don't do the work they accuse them of. This often happens because sometimes we have misunderstandings that sometimes make us accuse people when in reality they didn't do it.
It is undeniable that this is very upsetting for ourselves. Thinking that we are the mastermind behind all harmful actions is what makes us irritated and we have to refute the accusations or judgments of those who wrong us. I've also experienced things like when I was accused of doing something even though I didn't do it. Of course this happened between me and my friend, and for those of you who experienced it mostly between you and your friends, because this is the most frequent source of disagreement.
When I was in school, of course I had a lot of my classmates. At first everything seemed fine, but as time went on I had problems with them and of course there was a problem of misunderstanding between me and them. This misunderstanding certainly led to accusations and judgment for things I did not do. The misunderstanding that I still remember when I was accused was when my friends said that I hated one of my friends, just because I didn't want to sit near him. This really shocked me and I wondered why they would think such things and accuse me of not being right.
I experienced it when I was in school and because of this I ended up getting bullied and this really kills someone's mentality. I certainly still remember how it happened and how it affected my mentality at that time.
When it happened, I certainly did not realize it at all. At that time I sat in my usual place in class, until I realized that a friend of mine was also sitting beside me, and kept me away from my previous seatmate. I actually didn't have a problem with this seat change, but at that time my new seatmate was a person who really liked to joke around even during class hours. I was a little bothered the first day sitting with him, and the second day I tried to dissuade him and to no avail. Until the third day, and I was very annoyed, the next day I moved his stool to its original place and I hoped that when he came in the morning he would unconsciously sit on the stool that I moved. I arranged it as neatly as I could so he wouldn't notice his seat had been moved.
Because at that time my classmates often moved seats, I thought that what I did was not suspicious, and everything went on as usual. I don't want to make my friend sad just because I feel annoyed and tell him to stay away from me, and that's why I'm doing this.
However, what my friends who suddenly realized this thought was completely different. I was accused of kicking out my seatmate secretly and they also said that I really didn't want to be friends with him. This suddenly made me surprised and saddened by the accusation, I really didn't mean it that way, but those in my class thought of me like that. I tried to explain well but it was powerless because I was alone against those who had been instigated by my actions. My seatmate even then became sad, moreover they fueled it. I couldn't do anything at that time, and I personally talked to my friend but he didn't care about me anymore, I ended up living my day full of guilt. This kind of thing is indeed very dangerous, it can kill someone's mentality just because of a little incitement, others will be consumed and those of us who don't have the intention as they think can't do anything about it.
This kind of thing is very dangerous, and it still happens a lot today. Instigating other people is indeed a cruel act because besides being able to make the person being instigated look bad, it can also break up a friendship. Of course this happened only because of a mere misunderstanding, which has not yet been proven. Therefore we must be good at defending ourselves by asking for evidence of what they accuse us of.
Maybe that's my story this time, I hope you guys are inspired and see you at the contest next week.
Special thanks to :
@hive-learners
@bruno-kema