when it come to the matter of relationships, there are no definite words to describe it, cause humans are unique and different in their own ways, our thoughts our view points perspectives are different, that's why when it comes to the matter of love, it's. different ball game entirely,
as we all know valentine is a period were love is celebrated an appreciated, a time where we look out for the ones we love and cherished, let them know we do value them either by giving them gifts, spending quality time, going out and having fun.....
i am an advocate of a 50/50 input in relationship, because the men also deserve as much love and attention as the women, we have to be realistic, especially during Val's season most women make it looks as if it's their season to be showered with gifts attention and so much love while very little of that population actually reciprocate that gesture of buying their men gift or actually spending on them.
love that Is one sided will not last it will definitely crash because the weight is one sided, for any relationship to last it be an intentional effort from both parties to keep things going smoothly that means a 50/50 input from both of them.
whenever it Is times like this I and my man we are out time to celebrate our selves we both get ourselves gift and appreciate each other's effort so far and it's becoming more like. ritual we do whenever it's our anniversary and so far it's been amazing and lovely so I say let's love come equally from both sides ....
thankyou for having me....
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