Your thoughts provoke your feelings and your feelings provoke your behaviors. It is not what happens, but how you live what happens. It is not the facts themselves, but how you live the facts.
If you train and practice thinking positively about yourself and you stop judging, you are able to reduce the anxiety caused and you become more empathetic and understanding with yourself and with other people.
If you learn to debate with the irrational beliefs that have made you so much suffer and change them for rational, positive and healthy beliefs, your lifestyle will change automatically. You will live with lower levels of stress, you will be happier and you will accept your reality and the behaviors of other people more easily.
They are irrational when:
They are rational when: