Do not allow others to use their energy to disrupt the frequency you are broadcasting.
To attract influence, you must be steady in your emotional state. You don't need peace, tranquility or the absence of worry to be calm.
Calmness is in the face of provocation, stress, frustration, and anticipation. It is something to cultivate because it keeps your mind clear.
When your mind has clarity, you become the creator of your own reality.
Learn to accept pain and pleasure with equanimity and crisis, use serendipity to avoid paralysis, let your mental clarity calm your environment rather than allowing your environment to disturb your mental clarity.
Solutions are attracted to calmness just as metals are attracted to magnets. You already know the life and you already know how to condition it to suit what you want at all times.