But why do we accuse others sometimes of the same crime we are guilty of?
It is not uncommon to have people who believe that self righteousness works for them and so they will travel any distance just to make you feel less important of yourself. Everyday is always a new page and gives us a new chance to a new story. Well, we can't keep doing the wrong things and not expect feedback from people but I believe our feedbacks should be hinged on the right way things should be done and not try to make ourselvea saints while we make others feel guilty for the same crime.
If you have been there before, then you will understand the even as little as picking your nose in public can attract so much attention from someone who just did the same and is already eating without any proper washing of hands to eliminate the dirts present. Well, we all have our flaws and I am not defending any bad act but I believe that one should first evaluate himself or herself before attacking the other neighbor who just did something of sort.
I have observed a lot of times that accusations has a way of affecting some kind of self confidence anyone has had in themselves before. You feel as though you are under public spectacle and you are the only one guilty in the world.
But why do we accuse people?
There are some accusations that are true and pure. If you stole from me and I have a feeling that you took it, maybe not an accusation per say but I could ask you and your response determines whether it results into an accusation or otherwise.
Accusation is not bad in itself but what it does to people eventually is what I call bad. Why's wrong with asking questions in love? What's wrong with correcting someone without making them feel bad about themselves?
When you accuse someone of anything, what you do to them eventually is beyond whatsoever you have accused then of. We are not all perfect and so we should learn tolerance for people on their misbehaviors as overtime, we can all learn the right thing.
I have observed that the only reason we do most of the not-so-good things we do to people is because we necessarily don't put ourselves in their shoes.
Accusations are sometimes uncalled for especially when your basis for such accusation is not a strong ground.
Just my random thoughts this morning.
Thanks for reading.
