There is an amazing thin Line between "Will you marry me? and "I do"
Consider these👏👏
- Your Courtship is the Prophecy of your marriage.
- Stop excusing it in Courtship, confront it if you don't want to face it in marriage.
- Truth is that, God gives us a chance to see in the courtship what awaits us in marriage so that we can also choose whether they are worth it or not.
- Do not waste your courtship acting married; cohabiting, having sex, and getting high on each other! Prayerful planning is what you must do at this time! Life is bigger than oosh and asshh!
- Do not overrate or underrate anything! Be objective and do not lie to yourself in the courting process! Marriage won't play games with reality! If you refuse to be honest with yourself, marriage will be brutally honest with you!
- I am not going to be emotional about my destiny! I know I am into you but the moment you stop looking like my future, I will treat you like a mistake and move on!
- It is very difficult to find the right person when we want to find the right person ourselves! It is way easier when we depend on God to reveal who the person is!
- One solid foundation of a good marriage is an honest and open courtship! If you compromise this, the foundation is lost and the building may never stand right!
- Courtship must be about 'into-me-see' Love is not blindly blind! You must be able to see what you will take a vow to!
- Love is 'consciously blind' to what it can see and decide to accept! It is not 'deceptively blind! If they hid it from you, it is deception, manipulation and seduction, not love!
- Marriage won't be about who is contemporary or who was proposed to on a plane or at sea. It is simply going to be factual. How do you both connect, react and respond to each other and life.
- If your life is worth anything to you, prayerfully consider the issue of who spends it with you!👊👊💪