I've witnessed scenarios where people are jealous of each other for just no reason. Jealousy is not to be seen as love. It is a lot of insecurity that is bottled up in one person.
Jealousy is one of those emotions that looks like love, but it is not love. It is hatred and insecurity mixed together with another portion of bad luck. Someone says I'm jealous because I love you.
That's not truly true. And that might be a maybe something. But sometimes jealousy has very little to do with love.
Sometimes it's because there is fear and insecurity in the air. That is where jealousy crept in. Think of just two female friends, one is more beautiful than the other.
The beautiful one would be so proud of herself and life is going to favor her to a very good point. The less beautiful one would be jealous of the beautiful one who is having everything right in life. This is where jealousy starts from.
If men approach the beautiful one often, the one who is not that beautiful is going to become jealous. This is also conversant with people who are on social media. Some people have not started making it in life, but some people have already.
If you go to Instagram, you see a lot of people who are already big guys, big girls, big boys already on Instagram. And if you have not yet got a grip of your own life, you might not be happy with yourself or you will start being jealous of them. Whereas the best thing to do is to keep at yourself, keep working on yourself to the very end.
Jealousy can grow if care is not taken and it can become hatred. There are cases of people who pour acid and abuse their friends, relatives, partners, all because of jealousy. Some people have even gone as far as committing murder because they are jealous of the other person.
The craziest part of jealousy is that those who are jealous of may not even know or be aware that you are jealous of them. But jealousy should not be entertained at any point in time. If someone is wearing a designer dress, the business is making millions and at every other week the life looks perfect, while you are still trying to figure out your own career, please don't get jealous, keep working on yourself.
Jealous people always see someone's success not as inspiration, but they see it as something that is not fair, as if life is not fair at them and that makes them very angry. The interesting thing here is that jealousy doesn't only exist between people who don't like each other. You can be jealous of someone that you genuinely love, it can be in between, but if care is not taken, it can go overboard.
You can be happy for your friend and still secretly wish you have all what they have. Human beings is a very complicated entity. Personally as a person, I do get jealous sometimes if I see some people that are actually doing more better than me and stuff like that.
When I notice myself comparing myself to others, immediately I become aware of this, I stop whatever I'm doing and put up the positive attitude to myself so that I can be better at all time and that distinction is what separates me from people who are jealous at all time. Jealousy will continue to exist. The goal is not to become a person who does not have feelings.
Immediately you have feelings, automatically jealousy can be imbibed in you. The best antidote for jealousy is to keep working on yourself. That's the best thing.