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You mistakenly placed your hand on a circuit and you got an electric shock as a reply. I can remember I learn something close to that, a burning nylon has to paste on me You can be doing a lot of things in it's under form until you come to realize that the need to step up. I don't support being mean, but well, you will have to be serious.
Humans are good at exploiting every available loophole; something you will have to set the needed boundaries. Until you realize your value, men will use you. Be very careful how you beg people. This is not pride; if you are always on the begging side, it means you are of little to no value at all.
Maybe you are yet to even realize who you are or what you have. Just like the employer and employee thing; the employer presents the offer and tags a payment to it, it is left for the employee to decide if he will take the job; that is measuring his worth and also willing to add value to back up the pay.
I told my co-partner, in building a business, you don't need people, all you need is the right people. If you walk along the road, you will find people moving up and down yet not all can solve your problem or fit into your vision. Some (many to be more precise) will either ignore your offer or just come in to use you for their personal advantage.
I have had to learn some things the hard way in my few years of entrepreneurship. Workers or staff tend to utilize every one of your weaknesses. The more you tolerate it, the worse the matter becomes. One excuse today, another the next day and it keeps repeating itself. Production in the process gets slowed down and who gets the loss for the entire wasted period?.
It's time we sit up, if you are full of excuses, then we are not fit to work together. We can't afford to make the company continue in slow motion. The rules has been re-adjusted, if you think we don't have what to offer, you are free to leave but if you choose to stay be sure you too are of value. Have you had such experiences before, do well to share so we can exchange ideas