In Your Arms Again...馃挄
5 years together. Alle, a very impulsive, & curious young woman; wanted immediate gratification. Ynoty on the other hand was the dream of every sane woman; when I say DREAM... He loved everything about Alle but just couldn't control her at the time. She was a little sweetheart, erratic, young, extremely ambitious & just wanted things her way.
They "separated" for three months, dating other people. During these months of separation, they kept in touch everyday still馃榿. They still had their gossip moments, discussing everything else but painfully avoiding their own story; afraid to explore their feelings. None of them wanted to be vulnerable. They felt something pulling them back to each other, despite the hurt.
Alle loved him so much & just could not find any of his qualities in anyone else. It was weird. He pampered her so much, understood her unspoken words, adored the woman she was...To her he was the perfect man.
She didn't want to appear soft & open with her feelings. Naturally stubborn; Perhaps she met her match in him. He let her struggle with that but never stopped loving or caring about her for a moment.
One evening whilst they spoke on phone, ynoty's phone rang from the other end. And in Alle's usual territorial manner asked...
"who's calling your phone at this time"
" just a friend" Ynoty replied
Alle became upset & angrily hung the phone.
ynoty must have smiled heartily & shook his head before ringing her back "you ran off with another man, why then are you still jealous" he asked Inbetween his charming laughter.
" I'm not happy" Alle stated
"I'm far from being happy" Ynoty replied almost immediately.
The first moment they flung away the battle of vulnerability avoidance. They were happy to be called 'weak' they had had enough of being with strangers...
Silence fell between them. The rest they say is history. Forever is now staring at them. Forever... Currently feels like heaven.
Interviewing both of them, they spoke about feeling different with other people. They struggled to connect with others. But with themselves it was easy & natural. A feeling of being two. "You look at him and it feels like you are looking at yourself"-Alle
"I never used to believe in soulmating, but now I do; I'm a preacher of the reality of soulmating" -Ynoty
My name is Danchimafm & I'm interested in their story.
Do you believe in Soulmating?
