The questions were more to see if I need to hire a nurse or someone to be here in case I fall asleep and don't wake up. I needed my child to check on me. I was trying to let him know that minutes count when there is an emergency. The youngest to whom I am writing is the only family I have that lives close by.

I have never had any health problem, so to worry about strokes and heart problems is new to me.

I was reading some of your posts and I see your knack for reflecting and I like it.