In everyone's life there come times when you go through dark cloudy days. You feel that in front of your eyes, your life is tearing apart and you have no control over the events which are happening in your life. You feel shattered, disheartened, unsuccessful. Life hit you hard and most probably show no mercy on you and that sinking feeling keeps increasing. You hit ROCK BOTTOM in your life.
1- Rock Bottom
During that Rock Bottom phase of your life, it's easy to blame others people, your circumstances or your luck. It's hard and very difficult to pick yourself up each day and believing in yourself. However, those of you who are experiencing some hardship, please don't give on you. Embrace your life. You will realize that there are good days, there are bad days. But you need to absorb this pain, you need to absorb this failure and embrace it. Make this solid foundation of your life.
2- Nothing Comes Easy
You need to understand this concept of life, that nothing comes easy. Tough time makes tough people. Either you will lose this battle in this stormy night or you will survive. Each time these life experiences make you more aware and stronger. Next time if any similar circumstances come in your life, then you will be in a better position to handle them.
3-Meet Most Important person in your life
Rock Bottom will help you understand the most important thing in your life and my friend, that's YOU. That's the time you will realize what you are made up of. That's the time when you find yourself. When everything in our lives going normal then you hardly care about yourself. You might be caring about what to wear, what to eat, however, I'm talking about your inner self (subconscious). Use this time to understand, what you really want, this is the time to just detach your emotions for a while, take a step back.
4- Third person perspective
If there are obstacles in your life then its ok. If you encounter failure. That's ok. Calm yourself and look at your life from a third person perspective. You need to connect the dots and understand the pattern of your life. Once you start looking at your life unbiased without any attachment (Detachment is the key), you will start seeing your life crystal clear. In order to solve the problems of your life, you don't need me or anyone else. Everything you need is within you.
My friend, you can't see anything in water if there are ripples. Same with your life. You need to calm down yourself, doesn't matter how tough is the time. You need to lift yourself up.
5- Only one way to go
When you realize that you hit the rock bottom, one good thing you can take out of that situation is that now there is only one way to go and that's UP. You can't live in the dark forever. So, we start making the solid foundation of our life from this point and start with trusting yourself. You have to trust yourself. From this moment, Stop blaming yourself for the past events.
6- Make your pain, your power
Gather all of yourself. You are already in pain my friend, take something good out of it. Change all this anger within you into pure motivation. Convert all the negative thoughts into positive thoughts. Be optimistic about your life.
7 Choices-
Create a master plan of your life. Be creative and stay focused. This is the time which will shape your life. Remember that your choices define your life. You will be alright.
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