How many times a day have we not asked ourselves this question daily.... Well if you worry about what everybody else thinks about you then probably more often than most of us... But why do we do it to ourselves to care, well for starters we all have to life with one anothers presence so might as well just get along.. Is that fair to yourself though??
For this last 10 years i have been thinking hard about this religion stuff that's been going on across the world. A lot of them have started without any of the others knowledge. So whose to say who is right and who is wrong, isn't it supposed to be about falling in with others that believe and feel the same way as you in-stead of them trying to convince you. If you didn't believe it in the beginning, you not going to believe it in the end. Why is it necessary to carry on with certain traditions that also you don't believe in or see as no use but as long as it keeps everyone happy around you, you will just go with it....
So to come back, to be or not to be.... is it imprinted in us as young or do we have it embedded into our DNA? I do believe that there is alot of it that we just can't help as that makes us who we are, but most is imprinted or imprints that gone wrong and altered your thoughts in a way that no one will ever understand.
Growing up i was pushed into the religion thing by my parents, which was intense.. 6 days out of the week i was in church, i knew the bible better than i knew our family history. I did what was expected from me and did not question anything as they seemed to have an answer for everything you asked which never made sense. Then when i started working and dating i slowly broke free from the religion and started exploring my questions by myself. I came to the conclusion that i don't know what to believe anymore and maybe i should've just stayed in the dark and follow the rest of the people as generation after generation have done..... BUT that is not me, that is not how my DNA was programmed. I need answers and realistic facts... Just because is not a answer for me and i want to see everything for myself. Everything we read , think, DO must be to a benefit of some one... Why can't it be to the benefit of yourself.
So if something feels right to you, how can it be wrong... because people told you so.... who gave them the answers of right and wrong as long as it does not harm any one around you.
I hope that you will all have a fantastic day and feel free to just be you.... SCREW the rest....
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