Hahahha I have opened a Pandora's box with this topic. Guess what...you're right too😆
Too much of anything can cause issues. Perhaps this might be the case with children? It also depends on the love language. Someone can say that they love someone a lot yet the other person feels none of that because they do not receive what they need. So maybe the spoiled children are actually frustrated children because deep down they do not receive the kind of love they truly need. Love is complicated, right?
A controlling mother or father is bad...and most of them do not know that they are like that, for some control is love
RE: Why love heals and hurts us in the same time?