Hey! Getting rushed to being married is a huge mistake. The pressure of the elders shows how unhappy they must be, so they need a new distraction, a baby toy, that they would use as a way to show society how much they conform. Adults should not obey the elders all the time, as many grew old but not wise. A child should come into a happy relationship, where the man and the woman consciously have chosen to be together.

This awful tradition of the elders screaming for a grandson is in my country too. I just want to tell the old people :***Get a hobby! Do something with your life beside telling us how to live it! ***. There is one thing to give advice when asked and another to dictate adults when should they conceive so the elder has something to brag about. I am maybe very direct and say things as they are, without ceonsorship. But for the well being of the future generations, more people should awake and realize what a huge responsibility is a kid and act accordingly.

I would love to see parenting classes becoming mandatory once a couple wants to conceive as many do not even know in what they get themselves into. Feeding and keeping a baby alive is not enough. Many do not know how to emotionally and spiritually provide for a child. I do hope for change in the future and it all starts within us. We have to change and then slowly things will shift.
Thank you for reading and have a blessed day!