Good tags, I will use them!
Fear is the biggest issue. People are afraid to change old patterns.I know that so many adults still fear a serious conversation with their parent. A lot of the trauma and bad decision making come from the unhealed wounds.
The time is never right if you think with fear. We always can find an excuse to lock things up and accept the status quo. This is how it has always been and that is it.
In a world where more people are depressed, I think that taking a closer look to mental health and patterns is so very important. A child needs two parents who can function in a normal healthy way. Imagine how a society will end up if the majority of couples are unhealthy emotionally, creating more trauma further down the road. A spiral of pain.
I observe myself, I observe my choices. I can understand so much more with the passing of time. A great motivator in making changes and having tough conversations is the fact that life is trully short. We can both not be here tomorrow. How many things left unsaid would remain? How many dreams not accomplished? How much love never shared or received?
I guess that waiting is a game where you can never win because you keep on returning in the same house of pain you have been living. If we become aware of the trauma and heal, we will most likely change the entire house and enter other doors. It is just a matter of awakening.
Thank you for reading!