Writing definetely helps with coping and the more you write, the better it gets. Turning down work is a tough one, but it has advantages. We can't work nonstop and neither satisfy all demands.
If you could make a living out of curation, that would be a dream come true for you. More time for your family and the freedom to do as you wish with the time that you have.
Work ethic is important, a strong character and self discipline goes a long way anywhere you go