A man who pays for the lady, you're old school like me too. Money doesn't mean a lot actually. Of course you need them to pay the bills and have a life, but it is not about the money when it comes to love, friendships, the quality of life. There are plenty rich people who are miserable and sad. I think that the most you obsess about being rich the more it affects you negatively. Being generous brings good things. When you offer something with a sincere heart. I think that we should all find this state of inner peace regardless of how rich we are or not. If someone is poor is that an excuse to be horrible with other people? Or if someone has mortgage and bills and loans... Is that an excuse to be grumpy, frugal and cheap all the time? I see it as an attitude issue. People with good morals and character show generosity even in the most difficult times. A guy or a woman with such a character is a keeper. The right person observes, appreciates and takes action accordingly.
I am glad to see that there are men who still think nice classy old school. Refreshing