So today I was having a discussion with a friend who was feeling very sad and angry with himself because according to him he made some certain mistakes which he claims that have cost him alot in his career as a whole..No one is above mistake right ?? But he was not ready to heal and move on so he kept getting angry with himself until I kept calming him down and making him know that he needs to move on , learn from his mistakes and hope for a better tommorow..
I know there are many people who might be in similar situation , you feel you made mistakes and now you are not ready to forgive yourself for making those mistakes, you are hurting yourself more and more by getting very angry with yourself ..
You need to let your heart heal , you need to stop being hard on yourself , you need to give yourself a break and accept that you are human and you cannot always be perfect all the time..
Learn to accept your mistakes, learn from them and move on..
Getting hard on yourself will not bring the solutions which you desire , learning from the mistakes and moving on is a better way to handle such situations...
Please stop getting hard on yourself...