Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Maybe as a mom, I have this soft heart for the kids. Their father is the same as you; they are afraid of him, and he doesn't hesitate to spank them, and I'm the one to cover them. Lol. I had PPD, and it was good that I could control myself because I wouldn't know what could happen if I allowed myself to be a Momster. They do listen to me, and when I shouted, they already knew that I was serious. I still manage to discipline them the way I think, right to their age. Thanks for reading, have a great day!