Being a parent really is a one time deal breaker. You may regret for spanking your kids but while I'm here regretting why I didn't. In my experience unconditional love sometimes leads to the child being spoiled to the point they are not afraid of you because they know you won't hurt them. Yes we millennials were beaten half to death by our parents that is why I don't want my child to experience such trauma. Especially as a father, I might accidentally kill my son. But it's not all that bad though, me and my son have a great relationship together although sometimes he only listens to me out of fear. I honestly don't even know why he fears me so much when I haven't even spanked him not even once. Every time I ask him he always answers that I might spank him for real and he might die lol. But he only listens when he knows that I'm already angry. Although I always explain to him how to be a proper man someday. I just want him to be as free as he can be and not like us millennials who were forced to do what our parents wanted. I know that our parents only wanted what's good for us but we are our own person and we have to choose our destiny in life. I wish my son to find his own destiny and if he fails, I will be there cheering him up unlike me and my father that doesn't go along well. I want to be my sons, best friend whom he can rely on and share his problems.