好多年没聚的同学要结婚了，接到同学的邀请，我有点诧异，好多年没有联系了，我们之间也不是特别的熟悉，别的同学结婚的时候也没有一个邀请过我的，不过我还是 挺开心的。
For many years did not gather the students to get married, and received the invitation of the students, I am a little surprised, for many years without contact, and we are not particularly familiar with, when other students married did not have an invitation to me, but I am still very happy.
要去参加同学的婚礼，想想还是有点激动，毕竟参加婚礼的不止我一个，还有其他的同学，大概有十多个同学吧，从毕业到现在有些同学十多年没有见过了，有些同学至少也有四五年没有见过了，借着同学的婚礼， 这些同学都可以见到，心里还是很雀跃的。婚礼在同学的老家举行，我不认识他家，只好求助其他的同学，让他们稍带我一程。
To participate in the wedding of the students, think or a little excited, after all, more than one of the wedding, there are other students, probably more than a dozen students, from graduation to some of the students have not seen more than a decade, some Students have at least four or five years have not seen, by the students of the wedding, these students can see, my heart is still very happy. Wedding in the classmate's home, I do not know his family, had to help other students, so that they take me a little time.
一个十多年没见的男同学负责接城里的同学，我也坐他的车子过去婚礼地点，车里一共加我三位同学，开车的并不是我同学，我也不认识他，不过交谈当中，发现是位很会聊天的男士。出发到婚礼地点要一段时间，我们几位同学就在车里交谈起来，刘同学现在已经是自己创业的老板了，做直播这一块的 ，跟其他的同学一直都有联系，他们几个男同学在学校的时候关系就很要好，没事总约一起打游戏，没想到现在各自的工作都是跟游戏有关的，一个是游戏策划，一个是做游戏平台的，还有一位同学也是做游戏的，我对这个领域完全不懂，所以听不太懂他们的交谈，只是无声地坐在一边听他们聊天，突然间发现自己在家里带孩子之后，外面的世界已经不懂太多了，现在的社会发展节奏太快，生活节奏也是，我跟不上的东西似乎太多了，不了解的领域也太多了，跟同学的代沟已经完全表现出来了，心里不免有些恐慌，虽然有些同学比较羡慕我，觉得我在家里带孩子，不需要出去拼搏，目前正是最好的状态，但我还是觉得恐慌，怕自己在家里带孩子之后跟外面的社会脱节了。
A ten years did not see the male classmates responsible for the students in the city, I also take his car past the wedding location, the car a total of three of my classmates, driving is not my classmates, I do not know him, Among them, found that is a bit chatting men. Starting to the wedding site to a period of time, we have a few students in the car to talk up, Liu students are now their own business owner, and do live this one, with the other students have been linked, they are a few male students In the school when the relationship is very good, nothing to play together with the game, did not think now their work is related to the game, one is the game planning, one is to do the game platform, there is a classmate is also the game, I do not understand this area completely, so do not understand their conversation, but quietly sitting while listening to their chat, suddenly found himself at home with children, the outside world has not much too much, and now the community The pace of development is too fast, the pace of life is, I can not keep up the things that seem too much, do not understand the field too much, with the generation of the generation gap has been fully demonstrated, and my heart can not help but panic, although some students envy me more , I think I have children at home, do not need to go hard, now is the best state, but I still feel panic, afraid of their own After the family with children with the outside of the community out of touch.
今天的聊天给我提了一个醒，即使我在家里带孩子，也不得不开始学习一些新的技能，不然等待我的就是被社会淘汰了。
Today 's chat gave me a wake up, even if I had children at home, had to start learning some new skills, or wait for me to be out of society.