时光易逝,岁月安详,2017年已接近尾声 / Time is perishable, time is serene, 2017 is close to the end

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光阴似流水在静静地流淌,不知不觉间又到了岁末。回顾这一年,平淡无奇、波澜不惊。唯一感到欣慰的是一向体质不好的母亲,今年的身体状况有了改善。每每电话中问起近况,母亲都称杠杠的,继而爽朗一笑,说是我的功劳。我总是嘿嘿两声,不置可否。

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我的家乡是东晋陶渊明“不为五斗米而折腰”的地方,那儿山清水秀,空气清新,生态环境很好。父母性格刚直,与人为善,他们的言行一直深深地影响着我们,使我们打小就知道做人的基本道理。在那个偏僻的小镇上,我快乐无忧地成长着,同时也养成了许多兴趣爱好。父母的疼爱,弟兄的关怀,让我倍感生活的幸福与珍贵。
长大后,我远离故土,赴外地求学。这期间经受的精神煎熬一刻也不曾停歇,个中滋味,一言难尽。思绪像奔腾的野马,跨越千山万水,直达我心中的那个地方。魂牵梦萦、夜不能寐,辗转反侧间悄然至天亮。
后来我远嫁他乡,来到了安徽,也就是现在所处的城市,距离家乡就更远了。那时候父亲的身体出现了异样,四肢乏力,精神困倦,食量慢慢减少,身体日渐消瘦。我总是抽出时间,去四百里外的江南小镇照顾他。然而现实总是残酷的,不管怎么努力,睿智的父亲还是在前年的那个夏天离开了我们。时至今日,我仍然不敢接受这个结果,似乎觉得父亲还在门口,戴着眼镜,坐在小板凳上看《古文观止》,不时的抬眼看看路过的乡邻。神情淡然,风采依旧。

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父亲离开后,母亲一直情绪低落。我看在眼里,急在心中,但又想不出合适的办法来改变这种现象。每隔一天我都会给母亲打个电话,听到她的声音我的心里才会踏实。
母亲向来身体虚弱,三天两头感冒,而且胃也不太好,时常反酸。药倒是吃了不少,效果不佳。去年寒假回老家,我特意买了两提复方阿胶浆看望母亲。返城后,我一再去电,嘱咐母亲一定要定时定量服用。
后来,我又断断续续地买了几次。母亲心疼得要死,不停地责怪我:这东西贵得要命,不要乱花钱了。要买就买给你自己喝吧!

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今年暑假,在我的执意要求下,母亲答应丢下手中的农活,来池州玩儿。转念一想,我却犯了愁:这一路转车的,真的不放心让她只身过来。我已经失去一位至亲了,对于母亲我当倍加珍惜。当时我的妊娠反应特别严重,再加上天生就有晕车的毛病,乘车对我来说比生病还难受。尽管如此,我还是毅然决然地踏上了返乡的路途。回到老家的第二天,我还没缓过神来,什么都吃不下。第三天我帮妈妈收拾好行李就匆匆上路了。
母亲是个闲不住的人。为了不让她感到孤单,我下载了爱奇艺,时常播放黄梅戏以及她爱看的影视剧。气温不是特别高的时候,我便带母亲去附近游玩。杏花村、动物园、百荷公园、西街、湿地广场等等都是经我们经常蹓跶的地方。

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在这儿住了一阵子后,母亲要回家了。她的理由是季节到了,必须整菜地了。留不住,我只好专程送她离开了池州。
从电话中得知,左邻右舍都说母亲胖了许多。每每碰到这样的话题,母亲都乐呵呵的:我在女儿那儿啥都不用做,吃得好,玩得好,能不长胖吗?
下半年每次提醒母亲要注意身体时,她都乐呵呵的:不用担心,我今年身体不错,感冒次数较往年少了很多。多年的胃病症状有了缓解,不用再吃吗叮咛了。还是你买的补品好!

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真的是复方阿胶浆起了作用?我无从知晓。只要母亲觉得管用 ,那以后还买给她。
我是在父母的娇宠下成长起来的,从呱呱坠地到孜孜求学,都让父母倾注了太多的心血,所以亲情对我来说弥足珍贵。尽管乡人对母亲说我很孝顺,一个可以抵人家三个,但是我觉得自己做的还远远不够。
亲爱的朋友们,请珍惜和父母在一起的日子,希望“子欲养而亲不在”的遗憾不要在自己的身边发生。

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时光易逝,岁月安详,2017年已接近尾声。之前的快乐也好,痛苦也罢,都让它随风而去吧!珍惜当下,把握明天,重新开始!Come on!

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Time is like water flowing quietly, imperceptibly and to the end of the year. Review this year, dull, uneventful. The only feeling of comfort was that the mother, who had always been poor, had improved this year. Asked about the situation when the phone, my mother said lever, and a hearty laugh, that is me. Hey I'm always twice, not to say yes or no.

My hometown is the Eastern Jin Dynasty Tao Yuanming "not for others and bow", where picturesque scenery, fresh air, good ecological environment. My parents kind and upright character, their words and deeds have been deeply affected us, so that we know the basic principle for a person born. In that remote town, I grew up happily, and developed a lot of interests. The love of my parents and the care of the brothers make me feel happy and precious in my life.

When I grew up, I stayed away from my hometown and went to school to study. During this period suffered mental suffering do not have a moment stop, a personal sorrow and joy. Thoughts like a galloping horse, across the numerous hills and streams, the place to my heart. Dreaming, sleep, toss and turn quietly to dawn.

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Later I married abroad, came to Anhui, which is now located in the city, the farther away from home. At that time, the father's body appeared different, weak limbs, mental sleepiness, food slowly decreased, and the body was thinning. I always take time to take care of him in the small town of South of the Yangtze River four hundred miles away. But the reality is always cruel, no matter how hard, the wise father left us in the last summer of the year before. Today, I still can't accept the result, seems to feel that the father at the door, wearing glasses, sitting on the bench at the "classical Chinese", looked up from time to time to see the passing of neighbors. The spirit is indifferent, the style is still.

After his father left, his mother had been depressed. I see in the eyes, anxious in the heart, but can not think of the right way to change this phenomenon. Every other day I will call my mother and hear her voice in my heart.

My mother has always been weak, cold and stomach every two or three days, not too good, always acid reflux. Medicine is a lot of food, the effect is not good. Last winter vacation back to my hometown, I specially bought two of the compound atjiao pulp to visit my mother. After returning to the city, I went to electricity again and again, and told my mother to take it regularly.

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Later, I bought a few times again and again. The mother was distressed, blame me not stop: this thing is expensive, do not waste money. Buy it for yourself and drink it to yourself.

This summer, at my insistence, my mother promised to leave his farm work and come to Chizhou for fun. I would like to, I have committed a worry: this road interchange, don't let her alone. I have lost a loved one, for my mother when cherish. At that time my pregnancy is particularly serious, plus have motion sickness problems, ride for me than the disease worse. Nevertheless, I still resolutely embarked on a return journey. Back to my home second days, I have not been able to delay God, nothing to eat. On the third day, I helped my mother pick up his luggage and hurried on.

My mother is a restless man. In order not to make her feel lonely, I downloaded Iqiyi, often playing Huangmei and her love for watching TV drama. When the temperature was not especially high, I took my mother to visit the neighborhood. Xinghuacun, zoo, Lotus Park, West Street, 100 square and so on are the wetland where we often walking.

After staying here for a while, my mother will go home. Her reason is that the season has arrived, and the whole vegetable field must be made. I couldn't keep it, and I had to send her out of Chizhou.

From the phone, the neighbourhood said that her mother was a lot fatter. I encountered such a topic, mother: I don't have a good mood in the daughter's do, eat well, play well, can not long fat?

The second half of each mother reminded to pay attention to the body, her good mood: don't worry, I am in good health, a lot less colds than in previous years. For many years the stomach symptoms have eased, not now injunctions. It's good for you to buy the tonic!

Really is the compound gelatin pulp played a role? I have no idea. As long as the mother thinks it works, then she will buy it for her later.

I grew up under the indulgence of his parents, from born to study diligently, let parents put too much effort, so the family are very precious to me. Although the local people to tell my mother very filial piety, a family can reach three, but I think it is not enough to do their own.

Dear friends, please cherish the days of being with your parents, and hope that the regret of "the son wants to keep not in" does not happen on your side.

Time is perishable, time is quiet, 2017 is close to the end. Before the happiness, or pain, let it go with the wind. Cherish the present, grasp tomorrow, start again! Come on!

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