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As a human being, your ability to love someone unconditionally is limited to your ability to keep your heart open, unconditionally. If you cannot consistently love yourself unconditionally, fill yourself with love, then you will not be able to consistently love others unconditionally.
So, where can unconditional love be obtained? If love is truly unconditional, then love cannot be obtained.
All you can get is approval. Many people are often confused and difficult to distinguish between agreement and love.
Approval is used to control, while love is a free gift. The key to experiencing unconditional love is being open and learning to know yourself more.
However, if you expect others to love unconditionally, this is only preparation for injury. Learn to love yourself unconditionally first, then share freely with others.
