There are many things that I have observed on the Twin Flame Journey. I want to start with with s the fact that I have someone who has all the criteria of being my twin flame. I know this because in the Twin Flame community there are a lot of criteria to meet most of which can apply to any love situation. And, if you clicked on this video chances are you know about these guidelines or at least have heard about them. One of the lessons we learn is letting go. Letting go iis getting rid of the expectations and the programming that we have associated with being in a relationship or being in love.
Sooner or later on the Twin Flame Journey we learn there can be no expectations of a regular love. One example is expecting for your lover to be around you. You can't expect them to have contact with you. You can't expect a return with regards to how much love you’re giving them. You can’t expect Love and Marriage you can't expect that future. And, you can't expect any typical getting together lifestyle that most people have when you subscribe to the Twin Flame Journey narrative.
So being that we cannot expect anything from our twin flame in order to preserve our Insanity we have to learn how to let go. We have to learn to let go. But, this is the case for any type of inner growth or spiritual journey. So that is one of the issues that I have with that community. Because they have put in something that we all have to learn. Everyone who is looking to better themselves has to learn how to let go. So why make it appear as though that is something exclusive to the Twin Flame community? Good on them for even leading people down the path of letting go. But when you learn to let go you're pretty much halfway there in your spiritual journey. Also, in the Twin Flame Community you'd be halfway there between you reuniting or having the Divine Union. That’s when the white rabbit shows up and they tell you okay now here's the next step. Instead of growing on your spiritual path or your inner self you; your attention has now been diverted and you have a whole list of lessons to learn, none of which include the concept of self.
All this in the hopes of being with someone else. it just doesn't work.This is why people who are introduced to the Twin Flame concept are confused. When they have this experience for; all they know they have grown. So why does it still hurt so bad? Letting go is a huge feat within itself. Why add more onto your load. All of this energy can be saved for your own journey and not the Journey of reuniting with someone else. That is not a journey.It’s an anchor. It’s tethering yourself and your process to the hope and possible never attaining this other person. And, it’s not truly letting go.
The energy of letting go is so important to the deprogramming of every individual that we just cannot sacrifice it for what can be considered “a Lover's wild goose chase”. Please save your energy for yourself. Do not go down the Twin Flame circle. Who you want to love, get rejected by and, get accepted by is your choice but remember; there's nothing new Under the Sun and as always if the person is attracted to you or wants to experience anything with you they will return your affections sooner or later. It's up to you if you want to look for someone to love you, wait for someone to love you, or initiate a relationship. Don’t follow these people when it comes to your heart because you need your heart for the care for yourself and until you meet someone else. But do not hold your breath in your inner growth processes.
