Prepare to face difficulties and problemsâ in life
"áááá˝áŹážááśáłáááášáˇ áĄááášáĄáá˛áąááź áťááááŹáąááźááᯠááášáááŻáášáááŻá áťááášááášááŹá¸ááŤ"
Human failings, such as ego, greed, envy, enmity and hate that prevailed from time immemorial, have remained unchanged even to the present time. The perennial problems that beset human beings are due to our inability to subdue our emotions like hatred and to replace them with love and compassion. In practically every aspect of our lives, in family circles, in society, in communal, national and even international affairs, we find the ugly word 'hatred' looming large in our dealings with one another.
áąáá˝á¸áĄááŽáąáá áá˝ááąááá˛áˇáá˛áˇ áĄááąážááŽá¸ááá áąááŹáážááŽá¸ááá áááŹáááŻááá ááášáááŻááá áĄááŻáášá¸ááźáŹá¸ááá ááášáˇ áá°ááŹá¸á áá˝áźáášááźáášá¸ááşáášáąááźáᏠááąáááĄááşááášáá ááąáťááŹáášá¸áá˛áᲠááášáťáá ášáąáááŤááášá áá°ááŹá¸áąááźááᯠááášááşáŹá¸áááŻáášá¸áąááá˛áˇ áąááá˝ááš áťááááŹáąááźáᏠáąááŤáááźáášáťááášá¸áá˛áˇáááŻá áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻááá˛á á ááášááśá áŹá¸ááşáášáąááźááᯠááááášá¸ááşáłáášáááŻáášáťááášá¸á áąáááąáŹá áááŻááŹáááŹá¸áąááźáá˛á áĄá áŹá¸ááááŻá¸áááŻáášáťááášá¸áąážááŹáášáˇ áąáááąááŤáášááŹáᏠáťáá ášááŤááášá ááááŹá¸á ᯠáĄáááŻáášá¸áĄáááŻáášá¸áĄááźáášá¸á áĄá áŻáĄááźá˛ááĄááźáášá¸á áá°ááĄááźá˛ááĄá áášá¸áĄááźáášá¸á áááŻáášááśáąááŹášáĄáąáá¸á áááŻáášááśááᏠáĄáąáá¸ááá áĽáááŻáá˛áˇ áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá áááąááźáá˛á áááąááŹáášáˇá áśáŻááŽá¸ááŤá¸áá˝áŹ áá°áá°ááşáášá¸ ááášááśáąáá¸ááášááášááᯠááşáášááşáášáťááášááťááášá á ááŻá¸áááŻá¸áąááá˛áˇ áĄááŻáášá¸ááźáŹá¸áááááŻááášáˇ áąážááŹáášááášááźáášáᏠá ááŹá¸ááśáŻá¸ááᯠáąááźááááŻáášááŤááášá
The father hates the child's disobedience, the child hates the parents for not providing what he considers are his essential needs. In society, a person would show hate to another person because of the feeling, rightly or wrongly, that the particular person was a stumbling block to one's aspiration and so on. In international relationships, one country would express hate for another country because of certain actions against it.
áááášáťáá ášáá°á ááąáá¸ááášáá˛á áááŹááśááááᯠááąááŹáááşáááᯠááąáá¸áááášá¸ áá°ááĄááźááš áĄááá áááŻáĄáášááşáášáąááźáááŻá á áĽášá¸á áŹá¸ááŹá¸ááŹááᯠá áŽá áĽášááąáá¸áá˛áˇáĄááźááš ááááąááźááᯠááąááŹáááşáąáá áá°ááĄááźá˛ááĄá áášá¸áá˛áá˝áŹ áá°áá ášáąááŹáášá áĄáťááŹá¸áá°áá ášáąááŹáášááᯠááŻáášá¸ááŽá¸ááŹáᏠááśá áŹá¸ááşáášáąážááŹáášáˇ áťáá ášááŤááášá áá˝áŹá¸ááášáťáá ášáąá áá˝áášááášáťáá ášáąá áááŻáá°áᏠáĄáťááŹá¸áá ášáąááŹáášáá˛á ááášáá˝áášá¸ááşáášá ááŹáąááźáá˝áŹ áááŻáášááśááášá¸áťáá ášááźáŹá¸ááŤááášá áááŻáášááśáááŹááášááśáąáá¸ááášááášáá˝áŹáąááŹáˇ áááŻáášááśáá ášáááŻáášááśá áĄáťááŹá¸áááŻáášááśáá ášááŻááᯠááá˝á ášááášááŹáᏠááášá¸ááᯠááášáááşáášáá˛áˇ áąááŹáášááźáášáááąááźáąážááŹáášáˇáťáá ášááŤááášá
How we are paying the rent
áá˝áŹá¸ááášá¸áááᯠááášááášá¸áá˛á áąáá¸ááášáąáážáááá˛
We must be prepared to face difficulties and problemsâin our day to day life. There is no existence without problems: that is the reality. We have strong craving to enjoy the sensual pleasures of the world. While we gain temporary satisfaction from enjoying these pleasures we have to pay the price in terms of physical pain and mental agony, because these things cannot last and will be taken away from us sooner or later.
áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻááᏠáąááá
áĽášáááá˝áŹ ážááśáłáąááźááááášáˇ áĄááášáĄáá˛áąááźá áťááááŹáąááźááᯠááášáááŻáášáááŻá áťááášááášááŹá¸áááŤááášá áťááááŹáąááźáá˛á áážááśáłáá˛áˇáááááŻáᏠááá˝áááŤáá°á¸á ááŤáᏠáááášáˇáĄáąáťááąááá˝áášááŤá áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻááᏠáąááŹáᎠááŹáááŻáášáĄáŹááśáŻáąááźááᯠááśá
áŹá¸áááŻáá˛áˇ áĄáŹááŹáááľ áĄááźáášáťááášá¸áťáážáááášá
ááŽáĄáŹááśáŻáĄáąááşáŹášáĄááŤá¸áąááźááᯠážááášáá°á¸áąááźááąááşáŹášááŹááąá ááŹáᎠáąááşááášááááąáááášáˇ áááŻáášááášá¸áá˛áťááášá¸á á
ááášááášá¸áá˛áťááášá¸áááŻáá˛áˇ áĄááášá¸áĄáá˝áŽá¸áąááź áąáá¸áááŤááášá ááŽáąááşááášáááąááźáᏠááŹáá˝áášáááśáá˛áˇáĄááźááš áá˝áźáášáąááŹášááŽááąá áĄáąáá˝á¸áá˝áášáˇáĄáťáááš áąááşáŹáášááźáášááźáŹá¸áá˝áŹáťáá
ášááŤááášá
This can be equated to the payment of rental for the body just as we pay rent for the house occupied by us. Think of the rental as the physical pain and mental agony and the house as our physical body occupied by us on a temporary basis. Through our body we enjoy our sensual pleasures and we must pay for it. There is nothing free in this world. Therefore if we seriously want to eradicate or eliminateâ physical pain and mental agony, we shouldâ subdue the strong craving force which resultsâ from the desire for sensual pleasures.
So long as we are subjected to this craving force, we are subjected to the consequences of physical pain and mental agony. So we become the slaves of our craving.
áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá áąááááŻáášáá˛áˇ áĄááášáĄááźááš áĄááášáá˝áŹá¸ááąáá¸áááŹáá˛á áááŻáášáááśáŹáĄááźááš áĄááąážáá¸áąáá¸áááŹááᯠááááášá¸áá˝áĽášážááášáˇáááŻáášááŤááášá áááŻáášááášá¸áá˛ááá á
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áš ááąááŹááŹá¸áťááŽá¸á ááŹááŽááŹááśáá˛áˇ áĄáąáťáááśáĄáŻáášáťáá
ášáąááá áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá ááŻáášáááśáŹááᯠáĄááášáĄáťáá
áš ááąááŹááŹá¸ááŤá áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá áááŻáášáááśáŹáá˛á ááŹáááŻáášáĄáŹááśáŻáąááźááᯠááśá
áŹá¸áá˛áˇáĄááźáášáąážááŹáášáˇ áĄááąážáá¸áąáá¸áááŹáťáá
ášááŤááášá ááŽááááŹážááŽá¸áá˛áá˝áŹ ááášááŹáá˝ áĄáááŹá¸ááááŤáá°á¸á ááŤáąážááŹáášáˇ áááŻáášááášá¸áá˛ááá á
ááášááášá¸áá˛áááąááźááᯠáĄáá˝áášááááš áĄáťáá
ášáťááášááşáášááášáááŻáááš áááŻááááŻááš ááášáá˝áŹá¸ááşáášááášáááŻáááš ááŹáááŻáášáĄáŹááśáŻáąááźááᯠááášááášáťááášá¸áá˛á áĄááşááłá¸ááášáťáá
ášáá˛áˇ áĄáŹá¸áąááŹáášá¸áąáᏠáĄáŹááŹáťááášá¸áťááá áĄáá˝ááášááᯠáá˝ááášááášá¸áá
ášááášáˇááŤááášá
ááŽáĄáŹá¸áąááŹáášá¸áąáᏠáĄáŹááŹáťááášá¸áťááá áĄáá˝ááášááᯠááášááśáąáááá˝áşáąááŹáˇ áááŻáášááášá¸áá˛ááá á
ááášááášá¸áá˛áááááŻáá˛áˇ áĄááşááłá¸ááášááᯠááśáąáááá˝áŹáťáá
ášááŤááášá ááŽáĄá፠áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻááᏠááá˝áŹáá˛á áąááşá¸áá˝áźáášáąááź áťáá
ášááźáŹá¸ááŤááášá
To do away with the physical pain and agony and to achieveâ spiritual happiness we must make our choice. We cannot have both completely, although the Buddha's teaching of the Middle Path allows us to enjoy pleasures moderately while at the same timeâ we develop our understanding to train ourselves to eventually give them up altogether. We should not look for outside sources to blame when we come across some problems as a result of enjoying sensual pleasures.
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ááášááášá¸áá˛áááąááźááᯠááášáá˝áŹá¸áťááŽá¸ ááşáášá¸ááŹááŻá ááśá
áŹá¸ááźáášáˇááąáĄáŹááš áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá áąááźá¸ááşáášááá˝áŹáťáá
ášááŤááášá áá˝á
ášááşááłá¸ááśáŻá¸áąááŹáˇ ááśáŻá¸á áááááŻáášááŤáá°á¸á áááŠáááááááŤáááŻáá˛áˇ ááŻááśáááŹá¸áąááŹášá áĄáąááşáŹášáĄááŤá¸ááᯠáĄááášáˇáĄááášáˇ áááŻáášá
áŹá¸ááźáášáˇáťááłááášáááŻáąáááášáˇ áá
ášááşááášááášá¸áá˝áŹáᲠáááŻáĄáąááşáŹášáĄááŤá¸áąááźááᯠáĄááśáŻá¸áá˝áŹ á
áźáášáááźáášáááŻáášáąáĄáŹááš ááşáášáˇážááśáááášáááŻáá˛áˇ ááŹááášááááᯠáťáá˝áášáˇááášáááŤááášá
ááŹáááŻáášáĄáŹááśáŻáąááź ááśá
áŹá¸áťááášá¸áá˛á áĄááşááłá¸ááášáĄáťáá
áš áťááááŹáąááź ážááśáłááŹáááš áťááášáá áĄáąážááŹáášá¸ááášá¸áąááźááᯠáá˝áŹážááśááŽá¸ áĄáťáá
ášáááášááášáˇááŤáá°á¸á
People cannot experience worldly pleasures and attachments without paying the price in worry and misery. They must be prepared to accept the consequences if they really want to enjoy the worldly life. Those who are unaware of the consequences will be deeply disappointed. Changed circumstances due to old age and sickness could cancel out these pleasures. People who are not ready to face these problems commit suicide or end up in mental institutions.
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ááášááášá¸áá˛áááááŻáá˛áˇ áĄááášá¸áĄáá˝áŽá¸ááąáá¸áᲠáąááŹáᎠááŹááŹááźáášáąááźá ááźáášááŹáááąááźááᯠáááśá
áŹá¸áááŻáášááŤáá°á¸á áąááŹááŽááááᯠáĄáá˝áášááááš áĄáááŹáąááźáááşáášáááš áááŻáá˛á áĄááşááłá¸ááášáąááźááᯠááášááśáááŻá áťááášááášááŹá¸áááŤááášá áĄááşááłá¸ááášáąááźááᯠáááááá°áá°áąááźáᏠáĄáťááášá¸áĄáááš á
ááášáááşáášá¸ááᏠáťáá
ášáááášááŤááášá
áĄááŻááá ááŹáááąážááŹáášáˇ áĄáąáťááĄáąááąááź áąáťááŹáášá¸áá˛ááźáŹá¸áťááášá¸ááąááŹáˇ ááŽážááášáá°á¸áá˝á
ášááášáááąááźááᯠáąááşááşáášááźáŹá¸áááŻáášááŤááášá
ááŽáťááááŹáąááźááᯠááášáááŻáášáááš áĄááášáĄááášáˇááťáá
ášáá°áąááźáᏠáááŻáášáˇáááŻáášááᯠááášáąáááźáŹá¸ážááááš ááŤáá˝áááŻááš á
ááášáąááŹááŤáᯠáąáá¸ááśáŻáąááźáá˝áŹ áááĄááśáŻá¸ááášážááááášá
We must not label Buddhism a pessimistic religion simply because it points out these realities of life! All the Buddha's Teachings show us how to lead meaningful and happy lives by understanding our human nature and the reality of the world around us.
áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻááᏠááŻááśááŹááŹááᯠáĄáááŻá¸áťáááš ááŹááŹáááŻá ááášááźáášááźááš áĄááášáááášááášáˇááŤáá°á¸á ááŹáťáá ášáááŻááá˛áááŻáąááŹáˇ ááŽááŹááŹá áááá˛á ááášáąááźááşáá˛áˇ áĄáąáťááąááąááźááᯠáŤááášáťááąáá¸áááŻáááŤáá˛á áťááášááŻááśáąááŹážááŹá¸áąáᏠáááŹá¸áąááŹášáĄáŹá¸ááśáŻá¸áᏠáá°ááŹá¸á ááąááŹáááŹááá˝áášáˇ áá˝áźáášáąááŹášáááŻá ááášááášá¸ááşááš ááááŹá ááááťáá ášááášááᯠááąááŹáąááŤááš ááŹá¸ááášáąá áťááášá¸áťááášáˇ áĄáááá¸áŤáášáá˝ááťááŽá¸ á ááášááşáášá¸ááŹáá˛áˇ áááąááźáᎠáĽáŽá¸ááášáá˛áˇ ááášá¸ááášá¸ááᯠáŤááášáťááąáá¸ááŹáťáá ášááŤááášá