Como padres tenemos la responsabilidad de orientar, acompañar y educar, para que nuestros hijos avances en diferentes ámbitos de su vida.
Este año como ya les he contado hemos vivido momentos de cambios inesperados, que han cambiado totalmente nuestra rutina, sin embargo como familia lo hemos superado paso a paso.
El duelo nunca es lineal de repente llegan los recuerdos y con ella la nostalgia y Aura aún está en su proceso de conocer y aceptar sus emociones, esas de tristeza, enojo y otras tantas que se juntan, cuando hay cambios repentinos en su rutina.
Al principio de todo este cambio, Aura tuvo que asistir a un escuela, tuvo que entender que mamá no estaba en esa área de trabajo, pero aún así ella podía cumplir con sus actividades y que mamá estaría hay para buscarla al finalizar la clase.
Hubieron situaciones porque la maestra era poco empática, sin embargo ella se adapto un poco al grupo y con orientación de nuestra parte como familia,culminó su año escolar, lo cual era nuestra meta principal.
Este año regresamos juntas a una nueva escuela, yo trabajo y ella estudia, ambas llegamos y como siempre nos vemos al final de la jornada para regresar a casa, eso es importante, marcar espacio para que ella aprenda a tomar decisiones en su área de estudio.
Como mamá la veo mucho más animada, tiene nuevas amigas y comparte con ellas, además de eso va muy bien en sus actividades escolares, sus aprendizajes se consolidan y sud notas siguen siendo excelentes, lo cual me indica que todo está bien.
A veces pensamos que los cambios no causan ningún impacto en los niños, que ellos no les importa mudarse y listo, que sus amistades son pasajeras y que siempre estará listo para un nuevo hogar, creó que debemos atender sus emociones, recordar que todos sentimos y que ellos también se adaptan a sus rutinas y que dejar atrás muchas de esas cosas, también les duele.
Sin embargo nos toca continuar, la vida está llena de cambios en todo momento y ese es el aprendizaje, si hay buenas amistades se van a quedar aún en la distancia, las cosas materiales se recuperan y los nuevos momentos siempre llegan, lo cual es genial.
Nuestra rutina cambio, ahora tenemos un nuevo hogar, hacemos nuevas amistades, disfrutamos de lo nuevo y recordamos lo hermoso del pasado, porque es la única forma de adaptarse y continuar.
A los niños se les acompaña, escucha, orienta y se comprende para cuidar su infancia sana y feliz..
Feliz fin de semana y muchas bendiciones 🙏
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School progress 📝
As parents, we have a responsibility to guide, support, and educate our children so that they can progress in different areas of their lives.
As I have already told you, this year we have experienced unexpected changes that have completely altered our routine. However, as a family, we have overcome these challenges step by step.
Grief is never linear; suddenly memories come flooding back, and with them nostalgia. Aura is still in the process of understanding and accepting her emotions—sadness, anger, and so many others that come together when there are sudden changes in her routine.
At the beginning of all this change, Aura had to attend school. She had to understand that her mother was not in that area of work, but that she could still do her activities and that her mother would be there to pick her up at the end of class.
There were situations because the teacher was not very empathetic, but she adapted a little to the group and, with guidance from us as a family, she finished her school year, which was our main goal.
This year we returned together to a new school. I work and she studies, and we both arrive and, as always, we see each other at the end of the day to go home. That's important, making space for her to learn to make decisions in her area of study.
As a mother, I see her much more cheerful, she has new friends and spends time with them, and on top of that, she is doing very well in her school activities, her learning is consolidating, and her grades continue to be excellent, which tells me that everything is fine.
Sometimes we think that changes don't have any impact on children, that they don't care about moving and that's it, that their friendships are fleeting and that they will always be ready for a new home. I believe that we must pay attention to their emotions, remember that we all feel and that they also adapt to their routines and that leaving many of those things behind also hurts them.
However, we must continue. Life is full of changes all the time, and that is the lesson. If there are good friendships, they will remain even in the distance. Material things can be replaced, and new moments always arrive, which is great.
Our routine has changed. Now we have a new home, we make new friends, we enjoy the new, and we remember the beauty of the past, because that is the only way to adapt and continue.
Children are accompanied, listened to, guided, and understood in order to ensure a healthy and happy childhood.
Happy weekend and many blessings 🙏
Photographs of my authorship taken with my Samsung A10 camera phone.
