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Is normal for us to have dreams but most times our parents never allow to choose our dreams and career.
Every child have there various dreams when growing up i can still remember me and my friends discussing about what we will be in future/our career funny enough many of us wanted to be a doctor, lawyer and engineer. Smile back then it seems like it was only this three career that people choose when going up.
Most times we plan our life and it doesn't turn out they way we want it. We should always bear in mind that God's plan is the best.
As a child my dream was to come a medical doctor my whole interest was to a be a doctor i have one uncle that have a clinic i will always go to his clinic and help out with the patience they patience are always happy to see me around. It have always been my dream to save people life's i so much value people's life.
I never knew that my parent was choosing another career for me not till in my senior class two (ss2) when my Dad ask me which course did i plan to study in the university I told him i want to become a medical doctor na where story change be that.
My dad said i most study business administration and not medical doctor my dad is this kind of people that don't need your premission to take decision or action what every rule he set you most keep. I could don't sleep nor eat. The next morning i rush to my uncle house to help me and beg my dad for me to be a medical doctor my dad didn't listening to anybody even my mom my dad promise me that if i didn't study business administration that he will not train me in school also he will disown me that was when i realize that my dad was not playing that he is serious
I stay at a home for 6 years hoping for my dad to change his mind my dad really show me hell during this year's he denied me of some many things i was really depress back then he stop my friends from visiting i was really a shadow of myself. after this year's i found out that my dad will not change his mind i want and purchase jamb form and i got admission in the university.
Currently i am managing my dad shop although i didn't study my dream course i am okay with the one i study i am doing so good in the business i now understand why my dad wanted me to study business administration.
Conclusion: parents should not impose any thing or career to their child or ward rather they should be a watch dog to their children guard them to get their dreams and vision. I understand the fact that the want the best from us but that should don't make them impose something on us or force us do something against our
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