La culpa[Esp-Eng]

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Feliz noche amigos de Holos&lotus

Hace tres semanas me di cuenta que mi mamá tenía los pies hinchados, empecé a preguntarle si sentía bien, si iba al baño regularmente, si dormía bien y cosas así, se lo comenté a mi hermano mayor primero y me dijo que era porque se apretaba mucho las cholas, ella solo usa sandalias erreuno y son de hebilla y ella se la pasa ajustandolas porque según le quedan flojas y es incomodo al caminar y eso yo lo entiendo.

Les confieso que esa respuesta de mi hermano no me parecio y lo comente con mis otros hermanos y me fui a hablar con un primo que es médico y le dije si podía examinarla, como era de noche me dijo la llevara en la mañana a las 8 y así se lo hice saber a mi mamá, llegada la hora me comunique con el pero tuvo que salir porque la hermana mayor de mi mamá tenía la tensión super alta.

Three weeks ago I noticed that my mom had swollen feet, I started to ask her if she felt well, if she went to the bathroom regularly, if she slept well and things like that, I told my older brother first and he told me that it was because she was tightening her sandals too much, she only uses erreuno sandals and they are buckle sandals and she keeps adjusting them because according to her they are loose and it is uncomfortable when walking and I understand that.

I confess that this answer from my brother did not seem to me and I commented it with my other siblings and I went to talk to a cousin who is a doctor and I told him if he could examine her, as it was at night he told me to take her in the morning at 8 o'clock and so I let my mom know, when the time came I communicated with him but he had to leave because my mom's older sister had super high blood pressure.

Cuando se desocupo la atendió y me dijo le hiciera un perfil 20,le pregunté las posibles causas y me dijo que puede ser algún medicamento porque a mi mamá le gusta tomar mucho atamel, podía ser el corazón o los riñones.
Aunque yo estaba segura que no era nada de eso me invadió la culpa, si la culpa, porque mi mamá es hipocondríaca y siempre se enferma de algo que no tiene pero esta vez había algo visible en su cuerpo y yo pense que a lo mejor de verdad estaba enferma y yo no le crei.

I asked her the possible causes and she told me that it could be some medication because my mom likes to take a lot of atamel, it could be the heart or the kidneys.
Although I was sure it was nothing like that, I was overcome with guilt, yes guilt, because my mom is a hypochondriac and always gets sick of something she doesn't have, but this time there was something visible in her body and I thought that maybe she was really sick and I didn't believe her.



Se le hicieron los exámenes y el colesterol le salio alto, pero los triglicerios mucho más.
Le envié los exámenes a mi primo y dijo le diera atorvastatina de 40 mg, no me parecía que con solo eso se iba a curar así que le mande los exámenes a mi sobrina y ella consulto con una emergenciologa y le dijo que ya mi mamá estaba sufriendo de los riñones y del corazón, mi culpa seguía creciendo, mi sobrina le mando los exámenes a su suegro que es nefrologo y el dijo que los riñones seguro no eran, que podía ser un problema cardíaco por la edad y que si no se trataba también afectaría los riñones, pero que para estar seguros le hicieran un rayos x de tórax para ver el corazón, así lo hicimos y al otro día la llevamos al cardiologo.

The tests were done and his cholesterol was high, but his triglycerides were much higher.
I sent the tests to my cousin and he said to give her atorvastatin 40 mg, I did not think that with that alone she would be cured, so I sent the tests to my niece and she consulted with an emergency specialist and she said that my mother was already suffering from kidney and heart problems, my guilt continued to grow, My niece sent the tests to her father-in-law who is a nephrologist and he said that the kidneys were not the problem, that it could be a heart problem because of her age and that if it was not treated it would also affect the kidneys, but to be sure they should do a chest x-ray to see the heart, so we did it and the next day we took her to the cardiologist.



Cuando la llevamos a hacer la placa según ella se sentía muy mal, estaba mareada no sabía que tenia y todo le dolía.

When we took her for the x-ray, according to her, she felt very bad, she was dizzy, she didn't know what was wrong and everything hurt.

Al día siguiente era la tercera en la consulta. el dr llego a las 9:30 y ella era la tercera y entonces armo todo un drama y lloraba porque se sentía muy mal y ya tenía incómodo a todo el mundo.
Cuando le toco el turno que pasamos al consultorio, el dr le preguntaba y le dijo que ella estaba muy enferma, que le dolía el pecho, los brazos, las piernas, no estaba bien de nada y yo sin poder hablar porque el dr me llamo la atención y me dijo no hablara porque el quería saber como estaba de la memoria, entonces ella tenía artritis, artrosis y todo lo que se le ocurrio, hasta que dijo no se había operado de nada y le dije al dr que si que tenía 2 operaciones una de un prolapso y otra de la vista, entonces el dr me dijo por que no me dijiste y le conteste porque usted me mando a callar, entonces me dijo bueno puede ayudar, entonces una amiga que es como su hija que fue con nosotros dijo tampoco tiene artrosis, ni artritis, entonces el dr tuvo que borrarlo de la historia y nos dijo que lo que tenía era depresión por falta de atención y le dije eso no es cierto mi mamá es una mujer bien atendida y me dijo no la abrazan, no la besan y le dije tampoco es cierto. Toda su actitud fue por temor a que el dr no le mandara pastillas.

The next day she was the third one in the office. the doctor arrived at 9:30 and she was the third one and then she made a drama and cried because she felt very bad and she made everyone uncomfortable.
When it was her turn to go to the office, the doctor asked her and told her that she was very sick, that her chest hurt, her arms, her legs, she was not well at all and I could not speak because the doctor called my attention and told me not to speak because he wanted to know how her memory was, then she had arthritis, arthrosis and everything he could think of, until she said she had not had any surgery and I told the doctor that she had 2 operations, one for a prolapse and the other for her eyesight, then the doctor told me why didn't you tell me and I answered him because you told me to shut up, then he told me well you can help, then a friend who is like his daughter who went with us said she doesn't have arthrosis or arthritis either, then the doctor had to erase it from the story and told us that what she had was depression due to lack of attention and I told him that is not true my mother is a well cared for woman and he told me she is not hugged, she is not kissed and I told him that is not true either. Her whole attitude was out of fear that the doctor would not send her pills.


Cuando el dr vio el rayos equis dijo efectivamente tiene una condición cardíaca el corazón grande y las venas gruesas pero cuando le hizo el electro y le tomo la tensión todo estaba perfecto, entonces dijo que ya era producto de la edad que en la parte cardiologica estaba bien y no ameritaba llevarla otra vez.

Cuando le tocó la barriga pegaba gritos y yo cada vez más asombrada con la conducta de mi mamá, el dr dijo lo que tiene es un colon irritable, cuando se vistio mi amiga le dijo al dr ella es hipocondríaca, el dr se quedo pensando y le dijo Antonia en vista que estas tan enferma tome la decisión de hospitalizarte 10 días en el hospital, milagrosamente mi mamá paso casi de estar qué no podía moverse a tener una energía increíble, no doctor yo en mi casa estoy bien es que usted me apreto muy duro y por eso me dolio🙈 y cambio totalmente su actitud.
Finalmente el dr le mando tratamiento para el Colón irritable, para los gases, los triglicerios, la depresión y un protector gástrico y ella super feliz con el poco de pastillas porque el tratamiento es por un mes y medio y que si seguía con los gases y dolores de estómago que el no creía la llevaramos con el gastroenterologo

When the doctor saw the X-rays he said that indeed she has a heart condition, the heart is big and the veins are thick but when he did the electrocardiogram and took her blood pressure everything was perfect, then he said that it was a product of her age and that she was fine cardiologically and did not need to be taken again.

When he touched her belly she was screaming and I was more and more amazed with my mom's behavior, the doctor said what she has is an irritable colon, when she got dressed my friend told the doctor she is a hypochondriac, the doctor kept thinking and said Antonia in view that you are so sick I decided to hospitalize you for 10 days in the hospital, Miraculously my mom went from being almost unable to move to having an incredible energy, no doctor I am fine at home, it's just that you squeezed me very hard and that's why it hurt me🙈 and totally changed her attitude.
Finally the doctor sent her treatment for the irritable colon, for the gases, the triglycerides, the depression and a gastric protector and she was super happy with the little pills because the treatment is for a month and a half and if she continued with the gases and stomach pains that he did not believe we should take her to the gastroenterologist.
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Ella en su alimentación es casí vegetariana imagino algunos vegetales le causan gases y el problema de ella es que hasta que no se tome todas esas pastillas no se cura.
Para mi fue un alivio saber que no e descuidado a mi madre y que si se cuando realmente le pasa algo, por que la culpa me atormento por varios días.
Mi mamá vive una vida muy tranquila, no le falta absolutamente nada gracias a Dios, el costo total de consulta, exámenes y tratamiento fue cubierto totalmente por sus nietos que están en el extranjero y mi hermana.

Gracias por leerme y por su apoyo.

Las fotos aquí utilizadas fueron tomadas por mi con mi celular huawei mate lite20 use Deelp traductor


She is almost vegetarian in her diet, I imagine that some vegetables cause her gas and her problem is that until she takes all those pills she is not cured.
For me it was a relief to know that I did not neglect my mother and that I know when something is really wrong with her, because the guilt tormented me for several days.
My mother lives a very peaceful life, she lacks absolutely nothing thanks to God, the total cost of consultation, tests and treatment was totally covered by her grandchildren who are abroad and my sister.

***Thank you for reading and for your support ***.

The photos used here were taken by me with my cell phone huawei mate lite20 use Deelp translator.



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