Marriage tips....
One of the many lessons I have learnt in Marriage is to always sleep on the same bed with my spouse even when we disagree or get upset with each other. The reason being that eventhough you are upset, your marriage still stands; nothing can separate you. Oftentimes, couples get upset with each other and abandon their matrimonial bed for the guest room or children's room or living room for days; sometimes months and in some cases they never move back into their room.
Even when you can't seem to stand each other, sleep on the same bed. Your matrimonial bed cannot be shared with anyone else except the two of you; if you abandon it who should sleep on it? If you leave your matrimonial bed, you give the enemy a space in your marriage to operate.
As you read this if you have moved out of your matrimonial bedroom, I beg move back as soon as possible. Give the enemy no place in your marriage. Come to think of it; the tongue and teeth disagree and clash sometimes but they remain at their positions; why must you leave your rightful position. At the middle of the night when your bodies touch each other it should remind that you are still husband and wife and maybe something else can proceed. Many at times issues are quickly resolved when you both remain in your bedroom.
Even when you are angry; sleep on the same bed. Disagreeing at times is normal in every marriage; don't overreact.
May God help us...
