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Greetings everyone!
At some point of life we all are fallen down and at that moment we need someone by our side just like a shoulder. We need some help or something by which our situation get pass or we feel better. We all think different and we all are different, and someday are really hard for us to suffer. But some of us are really desperate that we are finding some help before the situation or some people are doing absolute nothing and some people are perfect that they find the help when it's really in need.
If I tell about myself then I am that kind of person that even though I face anything or no matter how hard the situation I will never ever open in front of someone or beg for someone's help I will find my own way even thought no matter how hard it is to suffer, or how much pain I need to suffer physical or mental. I am trying to keep my things with myself no matter how much a person is close even though my family or friends or anyone. I love to stay private.
I love to keep my things with myself without sharing anyone, and it feels me really good. Because no one knows how do you feel, what do you think, it's everything in your mind. And even though if I talk about for shoulder and help I don't ask someone even for help until things get out of my control and I don't have any option expect to ask some help from someone. Well as I said everyone are different, when I ask help for someone I feel like I am getting weak and I am begging in front of someone. And as a man society does not accept this.
As a man you need to stay strong and make your close one safe and comfortable no matter what the situation or what do you feel. As I said I never ever ask help with anyone I love to stay private and I will face things alone without saying, discussing or asking help. Until it's very necessary for me. Everyone are different I would like to prefer that you should also stay private. I also think the more often you ask help from others you might become very depend on other people.
You should learn how to make your own way without asking any help. This is what I think, if you need help you can ask. But till the things you can keep to yourself you should. Because when you get highlight in people's mind they think you are always needy. There is also some kind of respect people should know that you are strong and bold enough to take care of things alone. All I need to say is sometimes and every rare is okay, but not every single time. And also don't get too late that things get out from your hand. You should know when you need and help and from whom.
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