Greetings everyone!
As we all know every country has different culture of living and lifestyle, so today we will be talking about the children's privacy. Well everyone need some private space in their life to settle down themselves, or just a time with yourself. But the question is at what age should a parents give a privacy to their children because when they are too young parents need to take care of them. But after a certain age when they are grown up enough it's time to give them some space. But some parents could never get the timing of age where they should leave them.
Even I have seen in my friends home they don't leave him for a single minute. But when parents behave like this the child gets frustrate and start hiding things or telling lie at every point to their parents. Well let's be practical, my parents were also use to care about me a lot and they were not leaving me alone, but when I was 16 years old and started understanding the things how and where, what to react they gave me free space. After that they were not putting pressure on me for anything I do.
Well privacy means not only about giving a room and things he want. Sometimes it's also about the freedom of whatever a child want to do he can. It's some kind of privacy because getting a private room is not a big deal, but when parents give us all freedom and letting our life by our own that's where the privacy starts for me. But parents get's confuse or can't take the decision at what time period they should leave him alone. I would say the best age is a child when he passes 10th standard.
Well the problem which a child is facing is seeing the children on his own age enjoying the life more freely and openly they get's frustrate from their life and blame on their parents. As everyone has different life of course and every parents don't think same but still it should be a mutual understanding. Every kid needs privacy and it plays important role in life, how it works is it helps the child to think by his own and help to face the situation and react by his own thoughts. Basically it's a fights of thoughts with ourselves.
So at last I just want to say that when I will become a parent then I would give my kid a personal space so that he/she can deal with their own thoughts but I will also make sure about their basic protection because it's necessary. But also make sure that they also don't get too much private with their life that they stop sharing about the life with you and also take care that they don't start telling lie with you. Because it's very sensitive topic, and take care of your kids at every age of their life without knowing them much.
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