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Marriage is a bee of Rose 馃尮, marriage is a place where you were you would love to be (of course it is馃槒), marriage is like the beautiful garden of Eden.
Yes these馃憜 are the news about marriage that have been on air for a while now, I mean that's the ideology many people have towards marriage and it's spreading fast like a virus because it is actually a virus, this ideology has led to the crumbling of many homes and marriages.
From my little observation, I've seen many marriages crumble and at same time I've seen many marriages prosper, all these comes as a result of how you view marriage even before entering into it and how you handle it.
I also noticed that marriage is not an established bed of roses or it doesn't have ENJOYMENT as a follow come item, marriage works out for what you put into it, so it's actually a place for building up, building up a family, building up a system that will positively impact your offspring.
Many people mis-interpret marriage for wedding so they put all their efforts in the wedding preparation and then after the wedding they face the reality of marriage.
I'm not saying that marriage doesn't have good and bright side, of course its were we would love to be (for the singles), but the beauty of it doesn't come automatically, you would have to build it.
On my journey of life so far, I've learnt that one of the essential building blocks for a beautiful marriage is having a good and beautiful character, most people focus on beautifying themselves and they leave behind their characters unkept, it's very necessary to build up a good character because it's going to determine how well your offspring would be.
This building of oneself is mostly done before marriage.
One other essential thing about marriage is that most people who are.of the age to marry are always in hurry to marry, marriage is not what you rush into because for the sincere ones there's no going back, divorce is really not an option so we just have to be very careful in chosing the right spouse, infact the thing is that if you're someone of good well being, you don't have to worry because you will certainly meet your type.
As for me, I wouldn't be in a hurry because I really see marriage as a place where I have to put in my full efforts in order to build a better feature for my generation, so in order to pay full attention in building a better feature for my family, I would not have all the time to my self, during marriage I would mostly have the time to build my family and less time to build myself, for instance, I can't marry as a millionaire ya that's for me I would rather build up myself to be a billionaire before I get married so that I would have the confidence of settling every financial bill then I can have enough time to build my family.
That doesn't mean I'm planning to marry at a very late time, no at least at the age of 32 I should be achieving my dreams.
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