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The reason why many people fail to grow in life is because they keep comparing themselves with others forgetting that everybody destiny if different, I've seen cases were people compare themselves with their pears and then they assume they have hit the climax point, what they fail to understand is that they are not to compare themselves with others but they are to compare themselves with the capacity of their destiny.
Sometimes we are carried away by the fact that we have gone ahead of our paers but that doesn't mean that we've reached the climax of our destiny, it might even look as if we are at the best among our pears but it's actually not the best of what we can do.
This is most imes the reason why many people don't strive to grow, because the have really caught a big fish but unknowingly to them, their appetite is larger than that fish, it's more like being a village champion meanwhile there are other great place to explore.
The best thing to do is to develop your skills and expand your abilities rather than comparing yourself, developing youself is bringing up an upgrade in your skills and it is to attest to the fact that what you have achieved is not the highest of what you can achieve.
Comparism really brings about a huge limitation, it limits us to "where we can reach" instead of "where we are supposed to reach", in the quest to gain access to where we are supposed to reach, we naturally expend our capacity, it's like a booster, but when we compare ourselves with other the question of challenge will be "where can you reach", now it's really a good quest but it will only take us to the point we have already gain access to, so instead of growing we are dwarfed.
The reason most times people compare themselves is because they think they are better than others, but they get it all wrong, they are not better than others they are just the best of who they are, so what makes you special is that you've found out your area of specialization and focus there.
I might even not be better than others but what matters is that I'm the best of who I can be, once again thanks for passing by, see you next time👍🖐️
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