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I've had quite a number of experience when it cheating and one consistent factor I've always noticed is "SELFISHNESS", self centered people are mostly prone to cheat others, its because they always think of themselves or the their interest above others and it's not really right that way, this doesn't mean we shouldn't care about ourselves but aside that we must understand the place of selflessness.
As mentioned above, the put their interest above other's in a general beneficial matter.
They think they need it mire than everyone forgetting that everybody has a problem to solve, this is also in contribution to their selfishness..
They think they are smarter than others.
For some unnecessary reasons like revenge, hatred etc.
It's just like asking this question "are selfish people MADE or BORN", definitely they are made, I mean it's there are factors that contribute to the attribute of selfishness and also one can decide either to become selfish or not, one of the reasons Why people become selfish is that they have a myopic mindset and it limits them of seeing outside themselves.
Of course their are some people that are born with such attribute but it could be corrected, so it's not like a permanent stain that can't be removed.
Sometimes w get cheated as a result of our carelessness so we also take part in the blame, this occurs more with buying of commodities, we might not be wise enough to acertain the price a then get cheated by the selfish seller.
In most cases that I've been cheated, I've learnt to let go, it earns you respect from others and the truth is that the person that let go is the greater one, of course you're more bigger than what you lost.
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