This post applies to men, women, and those of all sexual orientations. The "me too" movement is often associated with just women. And, it's simply not the case. It applies to all people, sexual orientations, races, etc.
I've had my share of legitimate me too moments. Ten years ago I was married and my ex husband and his best friend raped me. Several other men have forced themselves upon me and you just freeze knowing you weren't ready and....it just happens. Years ago I was more naive. I let them get away with it.
Things have changed. Recently, I being single met a guy at bar and was tipsy enough not to safely drive but not tipsy enough not be be 100% oriented to time, place, & person.
I went home with him. A sexual act occurred that I said "NO" to REPEATEDLY. He forced it and did it anyway. Then left to feed a friend's dog. By that time he got back, I had sobered up and ask for a ride back to my car. He refused. I walked 5 miles at 2AM to get back which was a hazard to me. I am short on money and couldn't afford a cab/ uber/ etc.
I thought about it for a while and decided to at least have a free consultation with a lawyer. And we will see how that goes.
Teach your kids about consent. Consent is no longer consent when the other person has said "no" and/or is no longer enjoying the experience. I would be glad to hear your input on this. Not looking for pity rather a discussion on consent. I'm not a parent but I think many parents just teach about the "birds and the bees" and not actual consent. It is very important to teach about both.
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