Hello, Steemians!
Dreamers nowadays find it really difficult to convince the crowd around them that they have got what it takes to become successful and realize their goals.
Despite all the positive energy and the many motivational speakers and coaches that operate around the world to fill these dreamers with hope and incentive, it is not easy to shake off all those doubtful opinions.
Specifically, when it comes to making decisions for your life, most wise people around you cautiously advise you to have a ‘Plan B’ unless everything else falls down.
I know what you are thinking right now. I am not writing this blog post to dissuade you from thinking about a plan B.
But I want to lend some context to the idea of thinking about a secondary plan in case everything goes south on you.
Wisdom is the most important aspect of making decisions in life. The more wisdom and understanding you have of the world you inhabit, the more powerful and mature your decisions will turn out to be.
You should indeed have another plan in store. Life is unpredictable, and as hard as we find it to admit, life is often tragic.
Things do not work out the way you want. Plans fall out of order because of some incident, and etc.
So, it is much advised to think of another plan in case your original dream falls apart. But you should understand one thing about Plan B.
Plan B is also a message to your heart and mind. A message that indicates: I may not succeed! I may not succeed after all!
This is really dangerous when you think about it. There are some people who spend more time and energy on their Plan B rather than focusing on their main dream, merely out of fear and dread that everything might fall apart.
Over time, their Plan B becomes their main focus, because it is much easier to accomplish and maintain.
It is not wrong to have a backup plan, but it is wrong to doubt yourself. To ever doubt the idea that you are going to realize your dream.
Some people spend too much time on their Plan B that they could have focused on their original plan, which would in turn give them more chance at succeeding.
So, even if you choose to have a Plan B, do not focus on it. Think about Plan B as a simple concept that is a ‘possibility’ for you if everything goes wrong.
For example, a writer thinks that he can be a teacher if his writing aspirations fails and he comes to a situation where he needs the money.
That person doesn’t have to spend time and energy working on himself so that he can teach in the future. His ‘wisdom’ determines that ‘teaching’ is a ‘possibility’ for him. Nothing more!
Treat your dream with care and dedication. Do not second-guess or doubt yourself.
Grow your wisdom and understanding of the world, so that you can always think of other options (Plan B) but do not spend more time on the matter.
If you work hard enough and if you kill your doubts, then you will succeed and realize your dreams!
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
Thanks All of You!!!!
@chbartist