Love isn't a feeling, it's a commitment to love everyday, physically and emotionally. It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for somebody else, because "The spark is gone".
No, that's not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally then do the same. Be the change. This isn't Hollywood, this isn't movies. That stuff isn't real. Love someone when you don't want to. When they aren't the easiest to deal with. When they're hard to love, That's the realist stuff there is..
Love The Way you Want to Be Loved
Stay Positive