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As the woman thinks in her heart, so she is Pv. 23.7
I believe that our way of thinking influences all areas of our life.
There are women who are optimistic by nature, others, on the contrary, are always having negative thoughts and defeats, they were born with that tendency and there are others who live with pessimistic people and become similar to them.
I was like that, an extremely negative woman, before things happened I already said to myself in my thoughts: it's not going well! In addition, I had an image very against myself, I was ugly, out of fashion patterns, whenever I thought about my life were thoughts of failures and extreme difficulties, it did not go through my head to find someone who would I could love and find a special person, or be professionally successful, everything was very difficult and far from my ability, when I had some plan or project my thoughts always put great obstacles to convince me that I was not going to get, I was a woman unhappy.
Have you thought about what is going on in your head? If you are a woman who has thoughts that only take you down I want to tell you that it is time for you to control your mind, I discovered that not all the thoughts that come to our head should receive full credit, on the contrary, we should evaluate and some discard totally, this same! You must by a filter in your mind.
I must tell you that this is not an easy task, at first it was very exhausting for me to evaluate every thought that came to my head, but as I saw that my life did not prosper I resolved to persevere in this task.
The first step for the renewal of my mind began when I learned that I eat food with the things I hear, read, talk and assist in television, so I started to select these things so that my mind could start working with a new material processing so new thoughts. I started reading the Bible, the word of God, I know that she is powerful to restore things that are literally broken in my life, I started with the book of Matthew in the New Testament and I was reading, reading, and God went to work in my mind, it was a wonderful experience, today I read the Bible every day is like a food for my soul. The next step happened when I stopped hearing those songs that had a depressive tendency, those that we all know: ... he left me ... I do not live without him ... I need you ... only you make me happy ... These songs that they give no future to anyone, I exchanged them for songs that spoke in victories, restoration, restitution, new life. And in the case that is not so. Then I could see how those songs only fed loneliness and sadness in my mind, sometimes I spent all day listening to them, at home, in the car, at work and I did not even realize that behind each tune there was a message that someone was passing to me. head .
Keep going! In the next step, I looked at my television and saw that my life was happening and I was there, sitting watching a fantasy, living a life that did not exist, I passed the filter through the novels and discovered a lot of malandragem, sensuality, intrigues, envies, murders, prostitutions and betrayals, and I asked myself: what are these things bringing good to my mind? It was then that I changed those moments in front of the television for readings of excellent books, studies, arts, walking, moments with my family, participation in the programming of my church and even moments with myself. How my life changed!
Change is not easy! But I can tell you: it is necessary. Try a new level of maturity, seek restoration of your mind, ask for help from the Lord Jesus, He is an expert in this area.
