*** A Time to Hear # Part 2 ***

The art of hearing can build a
relationship. If we do
well, people will be interested
with us and our interactions will be
more harmonious.

Here's an easy technique that can be
practiced by you in reasonable
it is natural to be a listener
the good one :

1. Keep your eye contact well.
   It shows the other person
   about openness and our sincerity

2. lean forward.
   It shows our interest
   on the topic of the conversation. This way
   will also remind us to
   has another point of view,
   ie not just focus on our self

3. Make a question when there is a thing
   need clarification or information
   new ones we need to investigate from
   our interlocutor.

1. Create a distraction
   interesting. This can make
   the conversation is more alive and not
   monotonous.
2. Cuplik or reset some words
   spoken by the other person.
   It shows that we do
   listen well to memorize
   some snippets of words.
3. Make a commitment to understand
   what he says, even if we do not
   like or angry. From here we will
   know the values ??applied
   our interlocutors, which may be different
   with the value we apply.

By trying to understand, it can
so we will find a point of view,
new insights, perceptions or awareness,
which is unthinkable to us
previous.

A good listener actually
almost as interesting as the speaker
the good one. If we are always on the pattern
that is true for a certain period of time,
then one day we will feel
benefits.

The process may seem long and long
dull, but it will eventually
feels worth the effort that has been
we do. We will feel more
both upon ourselves, our relationships,
our friends, our children,
or work.

Conclusion: Be a listener
well, because this trait can be
key to developing the mind
which is positive, and is one
Our ladder to achieve success! :-)