The blood links do not force you to love anyone, they are only titles. A reality that many find difficult to understand, that even removes fibers and causes pain.
But the truth is that the blood is not what makes you love, it is solidarity, it is sharing, it is the day to day, it is the help, it is the support, it is the gestures of affection, it is the experience together with the people . You need to have the strength to say no and wisdom to be able to say yes.
Affection does not beg, nor is it claimed. Not the friendship one. Not even the one of son. Not the mother's. Affection is spontaneous or it is not true. People have the right to love you, not the duty to love you. Do not lose your dignity by begging for affection or love. As I said, affection does not beg, nor is it claimed. Even the love of mothers is not perfect, there are mothers who are useless.
Sometimes we do not realize or do not want to realize that our presence in a place is not valued, but on the contrary, it is uncomfortable and we keep giving of ourselves and trying to ignore signals that invite us not to return.
Fortunately, time is a specialist in bringing truths to light and in opening the eyes of those who were denied to see a reality. It may be that in doing so something breaks, but surely that will be much easier to repair than the damage of being present.
Source: Paramount
