Thanks @owasco. As "interactions" go, little scraps like that calendar are all I have left of my aunt. If she had kept a journal.... what a treasure! (If anyone could decipher her handwriting.) That credit-card sized calendar does haunt me. The emotions spilling onto it - I can't even articulate this - her need to express the horror and loss in some "safe" way. I wish I'd gotten to know her better. Some people are so hard to "crack open" their shells and see what's inside....beneath the spiked armor plating...