Your daughter and her daddy... thank God you're a newlywed and starting over, even if it's a bit of an adjustment. Thanks for the kind words - I've heard "jealousy" as a motive - why can't we be happy for others who succeed and do well and look great?? Oh well. Off to walk dogs and enjoy what's left of an October day. The sun keeps setting earlier but spring will come.... and you are NOT a "flaky" writer, and you will move forward. :)