This:

fractured relationships with family and heartbreaks delivered by other people who never need to know how badly they damaged me...

And the process of celebrating all that is good, hoping things will be good but moving on when they prove not to be. You do have many books in you, and the freedom to choose which ones to tell, and which to keep hidden inside your active mind.
#Cinderella - yes!
May your HEA (happily ever after for those who don't workshop) last for many good years to come.