Letting go is one of the most difficult choice to make in life.
No matter how careless or the " I don't care attitude" you have, they're some situations in life that happens you feel stuck of making some choices.
It might actually be very easy to advice someone to let go of some things and moved on but it's never easy to practiced it. It easy to say but difficult to act, especially when it has to do with people that are so dear to us, people who are everything to us. The worst part is that even when we feel drained or discouraged around them, we still can't let them.
We forget that, letting go doe's not mean, we're cutting off from them forever, it doesn't mean we won't get to communicate with them again, it doesn't mean we won't love them again.
Letting go means we're trying to find ourselves, it means we're trying to create a healthy relationship for ourselves. It means we just have to set some boundaries, and love them from a distance. It means moving out to look for people who see things the way we do. And also prioritising our growth.
At every point in time we all need people that will support us. It's hurt to see things this way and the person who's so close to you, is seeing the other way round.
It's a feelings that sometimes we can't even share, we battle with this alone because it's looks like the world is against us or we're doing too much. Holding on to this people might drag us back, they might be our limitations, because if we are still stuck with them, we will end up being swallowed by their fear. We will let our fear defeat us.
I could remember one toxic place I was, they were people who loved me and I loved them too so dearly.
But each time I go around them to share my dreams, or during out conversation I share a little if my plans, they'll always try to make me see reasons why the plans won't work out. And each time I retire back to bed, I'll feel discouraged. And i could not share it with anyone, because i was trying to protect the interest of my relationship without thinking about what will become of my mental health. Each day i lock myself up crying for hours, hoping that one day God will open their eyes to see this thing the way i do. But no way, things get worst by the day. My plans was no longer a news to them, and they too oneday thought i wll stop mentioing it to them and buy their fear. I began to believe that, no one will support me.
Until I got to discover myself and moved on from them.
So with this, at every point in time, if we want to grow we must refuse to let our emotions overwhelmed us.
We must always be ready to face reality.
I know it hurts to let go, but it's a choice we must make if we want to grow.
Thank you guys..
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