Expand Self Introspection Before Talking ......
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let's take a break while reading a little of my post this time, hopefully it can be one of the references for us to continue enriching scientific treasures.
"Want to blame others but if you don't criticize them. That is the reciprocal of life, there are those who criticize others
Want to blame others, but if you don't criticize, you don't want to. That is the reciprocation of life, there are those who criticize others who are criticized. But human nature and character are different, some are willing to accept criticism if it can make it better and some do not want to accept criticism. Talking about the problem of criticism have we tried introspection to ourselves? Sometimes the critic is not necessarily much better than the critic.
Let us all learn not to arbitrarily beat others without tracing them deeper. Examples like this happen a lot especially to my own family, my mother. Other people always criticize Widows how much they dress up, want to meet their girlfriends and all kinds of things. Even though secretly the neighbor who criticized was even talking to himself, he joined the lipstick and bought colorful clothes.
Even though they don't know what my mother's business is where she is and where they are outside they don't know. Sometimes he goes out to take care of the father's retirement letter, buying something in the market or controlling the doctor nowhere but the view of people is always cynical and blaming without tracing it deeper. My mother said being a widow was bad and what was done in people's eyes would always be wrong. That is the disease of society today.
Basically there are no human beings who are one hundred percent perfect. The president who has a position can be sent down, let alone the king? Before we judge others we better judge ourselves like what. Are we better or worse than most people? So that we can introspect ourselves.
Anything we say for a long time can return to ourselves if we don't control words. Like to blame other people but the turn is not wronged and this is one of the traits that other people don't like Selfishly. Someone prefers to talk about himself than to think of others.
Have you ever thought of another reason why someone left your life? Whether they are your boyfriend, husband or wife, maybe something is wrong with you and you still don't realize it. There are many things you have to fix especially regarding personal relationships.
The human mind is very soft as deep as the ocean can still be measured but who will measure it? Before we criticize this person and that has made us introspect with ourselves? When someone leaves our lives and doesn't want to come back again, have we looked at ourselves what is the cause? Now is not the time to blame each other I am the right and you are wrong. All the problems that come back to each one of you because it could be all that arises because of us.
The problem in our head arises like a disease, not all of these diseases come suddenly without cause and can be because it starts from our own diet. This reflects something that it would be nice to see the dark side of ourselves and not always see the bright side. If we know that we are wrong, try to clean it up little by little and ask for an assessment of what people have not fixed.
Learning self-introspection means that we learn to defeat ourselves, defeat all existing egos that are true human beings. Because sometimes we always feel that we are right when in the eyes of others it is not necessarily.
Judging something is not just based on the outside and when something goes away do not always blame it. You only waste your energy on people who don't care about you anymore even though it's clear that the cause is in your ego. Settle yourself and live everything that is better than throwing away the waste and fighting each other blaming each other. One day we will have children and families, of course if our children or family are hurt by people, we will not want to. Try not to blame people arbitrarily because basically not everyone is perfect.
The good or bad we say to others can come back to ourselves so be careful in keeping the words and multiply self-reflection.
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